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Ashgate Hospice > Boy, 6, to conquer hospice’s superhero walk for charity in memory of ‘amazing’ dad

A six-year-old whose “Superman” dad died from a rare cancer will be taking on Ashgate Hospice’s Superhero Night Walk in tribute to the care he received. 

Fletcher Parkes was just 10 months old when his dad Gavin Parkes was diagnosed with a rare form of bladder cancer in August 2018. 

Months later – after undergoing intense hospital treatment for the illness – doctors told him the devastating news that his cancer was incurable. 

The kitchen fitter, from Sheffield, was admitted to the hospice’s Inpatient Unit in Chesterfield in March 2019, where he received round-the-clock specialist care. 

Gavin and his partner Lori’s wedding had been planned for June, and they soon realised he was not going to make it to the date. 

But staff and volunteers rallied together to ensure they could tie the knot at the hospice, with Fletcher by their side, just days before Gavin’s death on 4 April, aged 39.  

Fletcher will be walking the Superhero Night Walk on 19 October in his dad's memory
Gavin and Fletcher had a special father and son relationship

Fletcher and Lori will join hundreds of others at the Superhero Night Walk fundraiser in Queen’s Park, Chesterfield on Saturday 19 October.   

“It has been heartbreaking for us all,” said Lori, 30, from Chesterfield. “Gavin was the most amazing man and an incredible dad to Fletcher.  

“I honestly can’t explain how much we appreciated everything that Ashgate did for us in those last few weeks.  

“Once Gavin arrived at the hospice, I stayed there with him every night. They went above and beyond for our family.  

“Ashgate set up our entire wedding for us – including a car, cake, drinks, hair and makeup. It was just fantastic and all our family and friends were there to see it.” 

The family, who were living in Sheffield but moved to Chesterfield to get family support, also received care at home from Ashgate before he was admitted to the ward. 

Fletcher is continuing to receive child bereavement support from the hospice’s counselling team.  

He is getting set to don his favourite Superman costume, which is particularly fitting given Gavin had the theme song played at his funeral. 

Fletcher was there to see his mum and dad tie the knot at the hospice
Fletcher wants to raise funds so other people can receive care like his dad

Lori, a teaching assistant at Tupton Hall School, added: “Fletcher is just starting to feel the impact of losing his dad at such a young age.  

“He’s receiving child bereavement counselling from Emily at Ashgate which he loves so much! 

“Fletcher wants to take part in the Superhero Night Walk so we can give something back to the hospice for everything they’ve done for us. 

“He first did the event last year and loved it! He loves dressing up as Superman because that’s what he called his dad, and we even had the theme tune playing at the funeral.” 

Since Gavin died, Lori’s family and friends have raised more than £10,000 to help fund end-of-life and palliative care for future families. 

Tickets cost just £6 per child and adults go FREE – registrations must be made before 1pm on 17th October. The walk will start at 5:30pm, and doors will open at 4.30pm.

Every participating child will receive a fundraising pack, superhero cape, and a glow-in-the-dark mask to wear whilst taking part in the event.   

Sign up or find out more about the Superhero Night Walk event on the the hospice’s website or call 01246 567 250.  

 

Fletcher called his dad "Superman"